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J.W. Rahn's avatar

Well said, Janet! It’s not too much to ask for us leaders to be held to a certain standard. And when certain standards are not met to be handled appropriately.

Sweeping sin under the rug to protect church leaders is not the answer and it perpetuates damage.

By the way, so grateful you had an amazing example of a Youth Pastor. So often we only hear the failure stories. Refreshing to hear how he honored God and shepherded well 🙏 Love it!

Janet Mefferd's avatar

Yes, mine was wonderful! I am so glad it encouraged you!

Bill Moore's avatar

Janet, you're one of the very few (I haven't looked widely, so you may be the only one) who has dared to say what should be said about the reality of this scandal. Thank you.

Janet Mefferd's avatar

You’re very kind. Thank you!

Brian Roden's avatar

<<But pastors like David in a sense do ruin you, because you’ll forever after expect that every pastor you meet will be equally godly and blameless. >>

The first class I took in our district school of ministry in Arkansas was hermeneutics, taught by a wonderful professor, Dr. LeRoy Bartel from Nelson University. After a class like that, which teaches proper principles of biblical interpretation (context, context, context!), you hope that you'll see it in practice. It ruined me for listening to sermons, because now my Spidey sense goes off whenever someone doesn't follow what I learned in that class.

Bradley Gray's avatar

Great stuff, as usual, Janet.

Janet Mefferd's avatar

Thank you so much.

Dawn's avatar

I'm really sad to hear about Tom Buck's plagiarism and the attempt by him and others to sweep it under the rug. As usual, your analysis is spot on and I appreciated your article a lot.

Janet Mefferd's avatar

Thank you so much.

Chris Criminger's avatar

In other words, you get gaslighted by church people.